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The founder of The Kinky Butler is slave chase tramel. From primary school onward, he had fantasies of serving as a butler for his schoolyard crushes. Later, when he had the pleasure to serve as a butler at a kinky formal dinner, he realized that butling could be more than a fantasy. As he gathered resources from professional butlers and service-oriented kinksters alike, he realized that he may not be alone in his search. Thus, he created The Kinky Butler to help kinksters bring an air of luxury to their everyday service.

Service-Oriented Cuckolding

In my experience, many people in the kink community think that cuckolding is purely based on humiliation and even degradation. They then understandably conclude that if they aren’t humiliation fetishists, cuckolding isn’t for them. I would like to change the narrative; While the level of humiliation involved can vary, cuckolding can be and often is …

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Chauffeur Service: An Absolute Beginner’s Guide

If you already have a handle on driving yourself around, it may be tempting to assume that chauffeuring as a service is as simple as adding another person. However, to truly excel and provide the feeling of luxury that a butler offers, there are many ways you can improve the experience beyond just driving the …

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The Leader Assistant From a Kinky Butler’s Perspective

Where possible, this article includes affiliate links.  As we have established, the kinky butler may take on any role that their principal deems necessary. In Butlers & Household Managers: 21st Century Professional, Steven Ferry explains the role of the butler:  A butler exists essentially to smooth the lives of his employer by taking over many …

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You Are Not the Hero: Kinky Butler Philosophy

Luke Skywalker. Harry Potter. Katniss Everdeen. Before the ubiquity of television, perhaps I would mention Odysseus or Sherlock Holmes. We can all think of heroes that we admire. And who doesn’t want to be the next Harry Potter of their world? Most likely, you’ve been the center of your own narrative for all of your …

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Vital Definitions for the Kinky Butler

Where possible, this article includes affiliate links.  As a means of introduction, I would like to define several terms I will be using frequently throughout this website. Butler Definition You have almost certainly seen a butler in a television show or movie, yet it’s often unclear what specific duties that a butler has in a …

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Butler Skills & Traits

One of the most well-known aspects of the butler is the depth and breadth of their skills. A professional butler may consider some of these skills commonplace, and yet others on this list are practiced only if another staff member isn’t available. As kinky butlers don’t often have additional staff at the ready, they may …

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